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Should I text my ex?

A tarot reading can help you name the intention behind a message: repair, curiosity, reassurance or difficulty letting go. The Page of Swords may bring communication into focus, while the Four of Swords can suggest a pause. The decision should also respect any boundary the other person has expressed.

Explore a love tarot reading

Look beyond the first feeling.

Draw for your intention, a possible consequence and what you need regardless of their reply. A message written to relieve an uncomfortable feeling can create a new uncertainty if the response is delayed. If you do choose to reach out, a clear and respectful message leaves room for the other person to decline. Silence should not become an invitation to keep trying.

A question to take with you.

Try: “What am I hoping this message will give me, and can I accept a different response?” If the answer is no, a pause may be more revealing than another card.

Try this.

  1. Draft the message without sending it immediately.
  2. Check that your reason for contact is clear and that contact is welcome.
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Reference: Biddy Tarot · Traditional card symbolism