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Can I start a relationship during a retrograde?

Yes. A retrograde period does not make a new relationship automatically doomed or uniquely destined. Some astrologers use the timing to emphasize review and a slower pace. You can apply that as a reflection prompt while still getting to know the person through ordinary communication, shared experiences and respect for boundaries.

Explore the live sky

Look beyond the first feeling.

Ask which planet is retrograde and what the interpretation is actually about. Mercury and Venus bring different symbolic themes, and several outer planets are retrograde for long periods. A blanket rule against beginning anything would ignore that variation. A promising connection still benefits from time to learn how each person behaves beyond the initial excitement.

A question to take with you.

Try: “What do I know about this connection, and what am I still learning?” Staying curious is more useful than assigning a final meaning to the day you met.

Try this.

  1. Check the actual planet and timestamp on the live tracker.
  2. Let the relationship develop at a pace that leaves room for clear expectations.
See which planets are retrograde now

Reference: Astrodienst · The symbolic astrology framework